Complain…

Ugh… It’s my hectic day…
Ugh.. I can’t write, I have no idea…
Ugh.. My body feels not good…
Ugh… I am so boring here…
Ugh… I am very upset with my colleague
bla.. bla.. bla..

Hi!

just STOP

STOP COMPLAIN

We will ruin our life by complaining anyway… why don’t you just stop complain? and enjoy your life without any petulance. Don’t you tired to whine all the time?

Off course, complaining is as useful for people’s minds as a whistle vent is for a teakettle. We use the phrase “let off steam” because frustration affects our behavior the way heat affects liquid in a container. As the level of negative emotion rises, we feel mounting pressure. We can handle this pressure in the same three ways we can handle steam: Explosion, Venting, and Harnessing the Power of Frustration. Martha Beck says about it on her anti-complain campaign.

Actualy if you complain about something, it means you are sure; there are better condition beyond your circumstances but you don’t want to have a responsibility to create it. If you don’t know something better beyond your circumstances, then you don’t have a reason to complain.

I bet, most of your complaining are situations that you can change. But you are too lazy to change it… too comfort with the current situation, you avoid the difficulties, and the main reason is you are affraid to face the risk…. when you defend on this situation then you start to whine… If you found your self on this situation, please consider to fix it or just leave it… and remember never whine again except to your creator…

I thought I ever whine on this blog… from now I have new chalenge to fix it.. To change is not easy. It won’t be comfortable… but we have to do it to create a really good life…

November 29th, 2007